He who knows other is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened. Lao Tzu
Not too long ago, I did a DISC Assessment, and although I did not realize it at the time, it actually has been incredibly beneficial. If you have read any of my other posts, you'll know that they are mostly personal and there is definitely a motif of self-improvement through self-analysis. In the archetype of the journey canon, I have always looked to develop a better understanding of myself.
For those unfamiliar, DISC stands for Dominance, Influence, Steadiness and Conscientiousness. I came out as heavily biased in the Influence quadrant. This meant that I gain a lot of meaning from others through talking and activity and tend to be emotional. Definitely mum. A strong 'I' score also lends itself to someone being convincing, magnetic, political, enthusiastic, persuasive, warm, demonstrative, trusting and optimistic. On a macro level, it also represents someone who is extroverted and social as opposed to introverted and task focused. Dad would be disappointed.
Definitely do not take this as a message to run out and go and get DISC Assessment done. It is just merely one suggestion. And something that I have tried and that I have since got a lot of value out of. There are things you know you know, and things you know that you don't know. And most of us exist in these two spheres. But there is a much larger space of knowledge and information that we don't even know we don't know.
Next on my list is genetic testing and genetic counseling.